Neil Patrick Harris And David Burtka’s Secret To A Lasting Marriage Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka's Relationship Timeline

Neil Patrick Harris And David Burtka’s Secret To A Lasting Marriage

Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka's Relationship Timeline

Alright folks, let’s talk about one of Hollywood’s most beloved couples: Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka. These two have been together for over 15 years, and they’re still going strong. They tied the knot back in 2014, and recently, David opened up about the secret to keeping their relationship so vibrant all these years. Now, that’s something we can all learn from, right?

David Burtka Shares the Key to a Thriving Relationship

David, who’s now 43 years old, spilled the beans in an exclusive interview with Closer Weekly. He said it all starts with communication—sure, that’s a no-brainer—but it goes deeper than just talking. He explained, “People sometimes forget that we grow individually, and relationships grow individually too. It’s totally okay if you’re becoming different people sometimes. Some folks get so hung up on the fact that things aren’t exactly the same as they used to be. But change is a part of life, and embracing it is key.”

Neil Patrick Harris and husband David Burtka pose at the opening night of "Torch Song" on Broadway at The 2nd Stage Helen Hayes Theater
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Embracing Change in Marriage

David also emphasized the importance of accepting change in a long-term relationship, especially when it comes to marriage. He believes that people often get stuck on the idea that things should stay the same. “You have to dive into the future and the unknown with brave abandonment,” he said. “A lot of folks get hung up on the fact that things aren’t exactly how they used to be. But relationships are like a job—they require effort. It’s work, but if you approach it in a healthy way, with trust and honesty, then it’s absolutely worth it.”

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    David, who shares 8-year-old twins Harper Grace Burtka-Harris and Gideon Scott Burtka-Harris with Neil, also talked about how having children has changed their lives for the better. The couple welcomed the twins via surrogacy back in 2010, and David says becoming a father was a transformative experience. “I always felt like I had to fit into a box, like I had to be someone I wasn’t. Watching the kids grow up and letting them be who they’re meant to be has taught me to embrace who I truly am. It’s a lesson in gratitude and self-acceptance.”

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    The entire Burtka-Harris family saw Harry Potter and the Cursed Child on Broadway today. Both parts in one day – over 5 hours! We loved it so much, we’d do it again tomorrow. Bravo, everyone involved. You inspire me to be better, to hug my kids, and to seek out magic. @hpplayus

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    David’s words remind us that family isn’t just about sticking to old patterns—it’s about growing together, embracing differences, and being grateful for what life brings. Talk about setting the bar high for #FamilyGoals!

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